I read back over a bunch of Male on Monday posts (I know, torture, right?) to make sure I was approaching this topic from the right, ahem, angle. I was struck by a common theme—most of the posts start out with an overview of the uncontestable, factual beauty of the guys, but then the move on to the specifics. The things this guy does that make him irresistible. I thought we could explore that theme today.
I’ll start. I have known from an empirical standpoint that Ryan Reynolds is an extremely attractive man. I’ve seen the pictures. (See? No way we can argue with the pictures.) He’s hot.
This weekend, I happened to catch him in The Proposal and my appreciation for Ryan Reynolds shot straight from empirical appreciation of standard male attractiveness to OMG, I love him. Swoon.
What changed?
His character held the door open for his girl.
I know. I know, it’s not a big thing. It’s not even a thing I necessarily always appreciate. But he was tall and lean and handsome and then he reached over the heroine’s head and pushed the door open so she could go through first. Oh, baby. Casual good manners. I love it!
Mr. Ryan Reynolds, I approve. (Yes, I do know Ryan Reynolds held the door open because it was in the script, but still. You get the sense he’d do it anyway.)
When we read or write romance, we have to see those fully-realized, wonderfully detailed characters on the page and we like to fall in love. Jennifer Crusie is a master of this craft. Davy Dempsey (from Faking It) is a character I’ll never forget. His cheerful, dogged determination to blow his heroine’s mind in bed was so refreshing and real. I try to learn from her and give my heroes that special something that makes the heroine (and the reader) fall in love. After all, we can read about the chiseled cheekbones or washboard abs (yes, I’ll wait while you scroll back up to the pictures), but those things won’t make us love a guy in a book—he’s got to be doing things right.In my new book, Plan B: Boyfriend, the heroine, Hailey, starts to fall in love (even though she doesn’t realize it) when Charlie McNulty hands her a paper towel while they’re hiding out in the ladies room. (Trust me, it’s a good thing.)
Here’s one from my life. I met my husband at a New Year’s Eve party. My friend, who likes to challenge people with her blunt remarks, pointed out that my husband had a thread dangling from the fly of his suit pants. I believe she may even have touched the thread. I was mortified. My husband pulled out his money clip, unfolded a tiny scissors from the edge, and clipped the thread. He folded the scissors back up, put it in his pocket, and smiled at my friend. “Better?” he asked. His utterly unflappable self-confidence was my idea of perfection. That very night I wrote in my diary, “I just met the man I’m going to marry…”What about you? Who are some memorable heroes in your real life or in books or movies? What was the thing the guy did that moved you away from “He’s cute” into a more specific appreciation of the guy himself?
I’m giving away a copy of my new Superromance, Plan B: Boyfriend, to one person who leaves a comment.
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